Learn everything about the 69 position: how to do it, why it's great for mutual pleasure, popular variations, and tips for a better experience.
How to Do This
To perform the 69 position, both partners lie down facing opposite directions so that each person's head is aligned with the other's genitals. The classic setup has one partner on their back while the other is on top, but you can also do it side-by-side for more comfort. Start by getting into position slowly to avoid awkwardness—communication is key. Once aligned, simultaneously give and receive oral sex. Use hands for additional stimulation, like caressing thighs or buttocks. Adjust heights with pillows if needed, and take breaks to prevent neck strain.
Why It's Cool
The 69 is all about mutual pleasure and equality, as both partners give and receive at the same time, creating a intense, shared buildup to orgasm. It fosters a sense of reciprocity and can feel incredibly intimate or playful. The position heightens sensory overload, combining the thrill of performing oral with the ecstasy of receiving it. It's versatile for all gender combinations and adds an element of multitasking excitement that can lead to explosive climaxes. Plus, it's a great way to explore each other's bodies up close.
Variations
For variations, try the side-by-side 69 to reduce pressure on the top partner and make it easier on the neck—lie on your sides facing each other’s genitals. Another twist is the standing 69 for the athletic, where one partner holds the other upside down (requires strength and trust). Or go for the lazy 69, where you roll onto your sides mid-session.
Tips
Maintain hygiene for confidence, use flavored lubes if desired, and sync rhythms by mirroring movements. If one partner finishes first, switch to focusing on the other. Always prioritize consent and comfort to keep it fun.